Day 6: Building a Spiritual Family
Scripture: Ephesians 2:19 (ESV) – “So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God.”
Devotional
The word “family” carries so much weight. For some, it evokes warmth, security, and unconditional love. For others, it might bring memories of brokenness or pain. Regardless of our backgrounds, we all have an innate longing to belong, to be part of something more enduring than casual friendships or shared interests. God, in His profound wisdom, designed the Church to be just that: a spiritual family.
When we come to Christ, we are not just saved from something; we are saved into something—a vibrant, living community, the very household of God. As our cornerstone scripture beautifully states, we are no longer outsiders or temporary visitors. We are given full citizenship and become integral members of God’s family. This isn’t just a nice metaphor; it’s a spiritual reality. We share a common Father, we are brothers and sisters in Christ, united by His blood and indwelt by His Spirit.
This spiritual family dynamic is meant to shape how we interact with one another. Family means shared identity, knowing that our primary connection is our bond in Jesus. It means extending grace, offering support, and celebrating each other’s victories as if they were our own. It’s about commitment through thick and thin, learning to love as Christ loves us—sacrificially and persistently. It’s in this family that we are nurtured, discipled, challenged, and equipped to grow into maturity in Christ.
Of course, like any family, our church families aren’t always perfect. We are, after all, a collection of imperfect people. There will be misunderstandings, disappointments, and times when relating feels hard. But the call is not to find a “perfect” spiritual family, but to actively participate in “building” one. This involves intentional effort: choosing to forgive, practicing empathy, offering hospitality, speaking words of encouragement, and consistently showing up for one another. It’s about recognizing that every member has a part to play in creating a culture where everyone feels known, valued, and loved.
Perhaps you’ve experienced the profound joy of a church community that truly felt like family, or maybe you’re still searching for that deep connection. Wherever you are, remember that God has placed you in His family for a reason. He desires for us to move beyond surface-level interactions and invest in building authentic, loving relationships that reflect His heart. Together, as members of His household, we find not only support and belonging but also a powerful collective witness to a watching world.
Additional Scripture for Meditation
- Romans 12:10 (ESV): “Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.”
- 1 Peter 4:8-9 (ESV): “Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. Show hospitality to one another without grumbling.”
- Galatians 3:28 (ESV): “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”
Reflection
- In what ways has your church community felt like a spiritual family to you?
- What are some practical characteristics of a healthy, thriving spiritual family that you desire to see or cultivate?
- What is one personal barrier (e.g., fear, busyness, past hurt) that sometimes keeps you from more deeply engaging with your church as family?
Practical Application
- This week, intentionally reach out to someone in your church you don’t know well. Ask them about their story, and look for ways to make them feel seen and welcomed as family.
- Consider a specific “family responsibility” you can take on within your church community—perhaps volunteering for a need, offering a meal, or consistently praying for a specific ministry or group of people.
- Practice “brotherly affection” by sending a note of encouragement or offering a word of honor to a fellow church member this week.
Prayer
Father God, thank You for adopting us into Your family through Jesus Christ. Thank You for the gift of our brothers and sisters in the faith. Help us to truly see and treat one another as beloved family members. Give us Your heart to love earnestly, to serve selflessly, and to be active builders of a community that reflects Your unconditional love and grace. May our spiritual family bring You glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.