Day 23: Living Out Reconciliation
Scripture: 2 Corinthians 5:18 (ESV) – “All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation…”
Introduction: The Broken Bridge
Imagine a deep, wide canyon. On one side stands a person, and on the other side stands another. A powerful earthquake—a moment of sin, a painful conflict, a harsh word—has shattered the bridge that once connected them. Now there’s just a chasm of bitterness, silence, and distance between them. They can see each other, but they can’t get to each other.
The world would tell them to just stay on their own side. “You’re better off,” it says. “Protect yourself. Don’t risk getting hurt again.”
But God looks at that broken bridge and gives His people a different command. He doesn’t just call us to stare across the canyon. He hands us the tools, the lumber, and the nails, and He tells us to get to work. He calls us to be bridge-builders.
Devotional
Listen to me, church. This is one of the most important verses for understanding our mission on earth. Notice the two parts. First, God, through Christ, reconciled us to Himself. When we were on one side of the canyon, separated from Him by our sin, He didn’t wait for us to build the bridge. He crossed the chasm. He did the impossible work. He reconciled us. That’s the Gospel.
But He didn’t stop there. The second part of that verse is a command that should shake us to our core. He then turned around and gave us the ministry of reconciliation. He made us the construction crew. It’s not an option. It’s not a suggestion for pastors or super-spiritual people. It is the ministry of every single person who has been reconciled to God.
This is extreme. This is radical. This means that when a relationship in the church is broken, it is our job to actively pursue peace. Reconciliation isn’t just saying, “I forgive you.” It’s the hard, messy, often painful work of rebuilding the bridge. It’s initiating the conversation. It’s humbly listening to the other person’s side. It’s seeking to understand, not just to be understood.
Let’s be real honest. This is not our natural response. Our natural response is to protect our pride, to prove we were right, and to wait for the other person to make the first move. But that is not the Gospel. The Gospel is moving first. The Gospel is absorbing the cost. The Gospel is building a bridge to someone who doesn’t deserve it, because Christ built a bridge to us when we didn’t deserve it.
This is the fruit of a victorious community. It’s a family that doesn’t just let broken relationships fester. It’s a family of courageous, humble bridge-builders.
Additional Scripture for Meditation
- Ephesians 2:16 (ESV): “…and might reconcile us both to God in one body through the cross, thereby killing the hostility.”
- Colossians 1:20 (ESV): “…and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross.”
- Matthew 5:23-24 (ESV): “So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.”
Reflection
- Gut Check: Is there a “broken bridge” in your life right now—a strained or broken relationship with another believer? Are you actively trying to build a bridge, or are you waiting on your side of the canyon?
- The verse says God gave us this ministry. Do you view reconciliation as a burden you have to carry or as a ministry you get to participate in? What’s the difference?
- Why do you think Jesus puts such a high premium on reconciliation that He says to leave your worship at the altar to go fix a broken relationship first?
Practical Application
- Identify One Bridge: Prayerfully identify one broken or strained relationship in your life. This week, your mission is to find one piece of “lumber”—one small, humble step you can take to begin repairs. Send a text. Make a call. Humbly say, “Can we talk?”
- Be the First to Move: Even if you feel you were only 10% wrong in a conflict, be the one to take 100% of the initiative to pursue peace. This is modeling the Gospel.
- Pray for a Bridge-Builder’s Heart: Ask God to give you a heart that hates broken relationships more than it loves being right. Pray for the courage to pursue peace, even when it’s costly.
Prayer
Father, thank You for being the ultimate bridge-builder. Thank You for crossing the impossible canyon of sin to reconcile us to Yourself. Forgive us for standing passively by our broken relationships while calling ourselves Your followers. Lord, give us the courage and humility of Jesus. Make us a people who run toward conflict with the goal of peace. Equip us, empower us, and send us out in this ministry of reconciliation, so the world can see what Your love looks like in action. In Jesus’ name, Amen.